Will He Ever Pop The Question ?
October 13th, 2009 Posted in Relationships
As women they tend to be very patient – too patient sometimes. They’ll wait and wait for the man they are dating to first utter those three words they long to hear ‘I love you’ followed by a close second ‘let’s get married.’
The problem is that some of them wait, and wait, and wait. Months, then years pass and the most they get from their guy is the occasional ‘you’re cool’ or ‘you’re a lot of fun.’ Futures aren’t built on fun alone.
There are easy ways to tell if your relationship is headed for something more substantial or if he’s considers you his girlfriend or in some cases girl friend.
If a man is even considering a deeper commitment with a woman, he’ll do at least one of the following:
- Introduce her to his family. Men want their parents and siblings to meet a woman they are in love with. If he’s keeping you away from them, it’s not a good sign.
- He’ll keep in close touch. He may not call like clockwork but he won’t let too much time pass without hearing your voice or seeing you. When a man is really interested in a woman, he’ll also want to know what’s going on in her life – all the small, seemingly boring details will be interesting to him. An in-the-moment man will usually call and ask if you’re busy. The reason being he’s got a few minutes to fit you into his schedule and he’s in a frisky mood.
- He has a savings account. If the man you are involved with is often asking you to buy him dinner, or he makes excuses about not having enough money to buy you a holiday, Valentine’s or birthday gift, he’s not thinking long term. When marriage is on a man’s mind he is saving for the future.
OK enough for tonight.
